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    Yoo I'm bout to be a slutty binder of women for Halloween
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      All binders full of women come equipped with a set of Bic “For Her” pens. 

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        I say this as a white girl: going through the paradigm shift necessary to unlearn racism hurts, getting called out hurts & learning your thoughts are not the most important hurts. But none of that holds a candle to how much hurt you will be inflicting if you don't. It's the price you pay for meeting the bare minimum standards of being a decent person. So put on your big girl pants & deal with it.
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            You can consent to sex without consenting to other things. You can consent to sex without consenting to pregnancy, stds, certain types of sex, marriage, relationships, and a multitude of other things. You can consent to oral sex, but not to penetrative sex. You are not a tease for wanting to do one thing and not another. You can consent to sex once without consenting again.

            The whole post is great but this is one of the most important points in my opinion

            Read/Reblog here

            (via we-named-the-dog-indiana)

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              2,130 Miles Later…We’re Here!

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                Maybe 23 cents doesn’t sound like a lot to someone with a Swiss bank account, Cayman Island Investments and an IRA worth tens of millions of dollars. But Governor Romney, when we lose 23 cents every hour, every day, every paycheck, every job, over our entire lives, what we lose can’t just be measured in dollars.

                Lily Ledbetter at the DNC (via stfusexists)

                THIS WAS SO AWESOME.

                (via alexandrahamilton)

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                  Welp. I almost think I should quit the Internet, because nothing could be better than today.

                  Also: Cheryl, welcome to Tumblr. In case you couldn’t tell, we’re all excited for you to be here.

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                    girlwithalessonplan:

                    gaywrites:

                    At their wedding in Indianapolis, a newly married opposite-sex couple decided that instead of having a traditional first dance together, they would reserve the first dance of the night for the same-sex couples whose relationships couldn’t be legally recognized.

                    John Green was there, and he posted about the night on Tumblr:

                    This was a large and very diverse wedding in a state that doesn’t even recognize same-sex civil unions, let alone marriage. And yet the ovation that these people received while dancing to The Beach Boys’ “Wouldn’t It Be Nice” was like nothing I’ve ever heard at any wedding. If there were dry eyes, I didn’t see any. 

                    Change is coming. 

                    Change is coming. 

                    I later learned one of my college pals is in that picture.  :)  So happy.  

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                      leaving is not enough; you must
                      stay gone. train your heart
                      like a dog. change the locks
                      even on the house he’s never
                      visited. you lucky, lucky girl.
                      you have an apartment
                      just your size. a bathtub
                      full of tea. a heart the size
                      of Arizona, but not nearly
                      so arid. don’t wish away
                      your cracked past, your
                      crooked toes, your problems
                      are papier mache puppets
                      you made or bought because the vendor
                      at the market was so compelling you just
                      had to have them. you had to have him.
                      and you did. and now you pull down
                      the bridge between your houses,
                      you make him call before
                      he visits, you take a lover
                      for granted, you take
                      a lover who looks at you
                      like maybe you are magic. make
                      the first bottle you consume
                      in this place a relic. place it
                      on whatever altar you fashion
                      with a knife and five cranberries.
                      don’t lose too much weight.
                      stupid girls are always trying
                      to disappear as revenge. and you
                      are not stupid. you loved a man
                      with more hands than a parade
                      of beggars, and here you stand. heart
                      like a four-poster bed. heart like a canvas.
                      heart leaking something so strong
                      they can smell it in the street.

                      ~ “Frida Kahlo to Marty McConnell”, by Marty McConnell.

                      you can see her perform it here. made me cry.

                      (via psychedelicately)

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